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Zen and the Art of ahem, Doodling

Doodling. What’s that about? Do you doodle?

If you’re a doodler, I applaud you. No, really. You have mastered the art of letting go. You know how to let your mental hand-brake off, flow in harmony and draw without aim. You are a Zen guru.

If you’re like me and don’t doodle, let’s start so we can groove to some Zen. Let’s give ourselves permission to doodle.

I think I’ve been too uptight to doodle. I must allow myself to doodle more and not be hung-up by my ridiculous notion that some invisible person is judging my subconscious by my tunnel and train, lit candles and rocket and cloud doodles. (Joking!) Side-note: Actually, maybe I’m not joking. I had a traumatic doodle experience years ago at a fancy-pants international advertising seminar. I happily doodled while the presenter spoke. Lovely. A whole page of doodles. Then the person next to me smiled lasciviously at me, nodding at my scribbles. I looked at my doodles – all phallic, I mean the whole page was full of penises, most with scrotums! WTF?

Now I’ve processed that particular professional embarrassment, let me get back to what I was saying. ‘Doodling’ isn’t just one of the most delightful words ever invented. (Dr Seuss has used it with oodles of noodles of doodles and other fun flapdoodle.)

It’s an art form, of course. A creative outlet. Perhaps for some people stuck in monotonous activities doodling is a much needed outlet for trapped creative juices.

I wonder, do you have to be ‘bored’ to doodle for it to count as authentic doodling?

Some people are incapable of just being still and I guess a lot of them doodle when they are not able to fiddle or wiggle.

Have teachers destroyed the therapy / art of doodling by confiscating pencils from doodling pupils? Or have they made it an artful act of rebellion?

When does a doodle become an artist’s sketch? Eh, dunno.

If you doodle, what things to do doodle? Are there certain times you find yourself doodling? Do some people sit down especially to doodle? That would be meditation then. Does that intention mean it’s not really doodling? Is doodling just an undervalued pastime that eases crushing boredom while on the phone or otherwise ‘trapped’ somewhere?

Has doodling by people in dungeon-like prisons prevented insanity? And does scratching the passing of days on a prison wall count as doodling?

Do doodles often inspire new ways of thinking, new pieces of art, new adventures, new engineering designs, new buildings, new websites, new ideas?

What about tagging and graffiti? Is graffiti al fresco, feral doodling? The mild-mannered doodle taken to dangerously exciting levels by the more anarchistic among us?

Where is the line between doodle and art? Is it a pencil or pen line? Do art gallery owners use the word “doodle” as an insult?

I wonder if what makes a drawing a doodle is that your mind is tuned-out while creating it? And if that’s the case, doesn’t that make doodling one of the finest “in-the-zone” kind of creative endeavours?

Has doodling dwindled in direct proportion to our increasing use of keyboard instead of pen and pencil?

So many questions. Well, why not? I am mentally doodling. You know, doodling is valued enough by humankind to have its own National Day – the next National Doodle Day is 11 February 2011. So make a wee note of that in your diary and be sure to doodle around the date.

The illustration above was doodled by President Herbert Hoover. You can see a fascinating selection of doodles from US Presidents like JFK and Reagan (“All the Presidents Doodles”) here.

The Virtual Magnificent Seven ————————> an enlightened posse

This posse bravely rides out into cyberspace and arrests everyone’s interest.

You might want to check out the things they have to say. You might even be changed by listening to them. Life might be better.

My ‘Seven from Heaven’ this Monday is a group of fiercely-individualistic, inspirational, extraordinary people who’ve chosen to serve the rest of us by sharing themselves and their knowledge online:

1. Leo Babauta – author, journalist and creator of hugely successful Zen Habits (160,000 subscribers) and MnmList blogs and their spin-offs including the A-list Blogging Bootcamps. (Which clearly I have not yet attended.) He is just all kinds of wonderfulness. @zen_habits

Two years down the track of subscribing to ZenHabits I still love the posts that arrive in my inbox. I’m very loved-up on Mr Babauta’s Mnmlist. Ironically, I just cannot get enough of it. I have to re-read posts to get more calm-fixes.

2. Dr. Aleks Krotoski – not only is she a total sweetheart, brilliantly individualist, articulate and charming on camera, she is extremely intelligent! A visionary academic! She has a PhD in Social Psychology studying how information spreads around social networks on the world wide web.

Bravo Ms Krotoski for shining so brightly and making BBC2’s The Virtual Revolution amazing. May we always be able to follow Dr Aleks’ light as she explores what the hell we’re all doing on this internet thingy. Plus, she writes five blogs. Yee-ha. @aleksk

3. Jonathan Mead – when I first subscribed to Illuminated Mind years ago I thought Mr Mead some ancient guru, his words being so very wise. I am still recovering from the shock to my assumption system when I saw his youthful pic months later. Mr Mead also wrangles the Black Sheep Project and is author of “The Zero Hour Workweek”. @jonathanmead

4. Danielle LaPorte – what a hottie! I only just a few week’s ago discovered author and spirituality/creativity igniter Ms LaPorte. I love how beautifully she is her authentic self on ‘White Hot Truth: because self-actualization rocks’. PLUS she followed me back on Twitter so she has my devotion. @DanielleLaPorte

5. Chris Guillebeau – Mr Guillebeau’s blog The Art of Non-Conformity is glorious. He also wrote a FREE e-book I adore with one the best book titles ever: A Brief Guide to World Domination. It is superb – download it immediately. I might go and read my copy again now. @chrisguillebeau

6. Pamela Slim – Business coach and author of the empowering notion Escape from Cubicle Nation. I’m really liking how Ms Slim brings people together, harmonizes and energises them.@pamslim

7. Tim Ferriss, author of The Four-Hour Work Week, brainy internet stuff (helped develop su.pr) and performance dude. I really liked his “Smash Fear Learn Anything” presentation on Ted.com. At least I think it was that one I liked, it could have been another. I also love the “Random” videos he makes with Kevin Rose like this one about their top five favorite books. (I thought Mr Rose was just Mr Ferriss’s bud but it turns out Kevin’s pretty famous too having invented WeFollow – hey Kev, put a pure search box in that thing would ya?) @tferriss

I subscribe to the blogs these magnificent individuals create for us all. If you haven’t discovered the joys of having eloquent, useful, entertaining and inspiring blog posts delivered directly to your email inbox, you could start with these cyber folks (and me, of course, click my link on the right).

P.S. Imagine if you got all seven of these electrifying energy sources into one room – do you think the world might explode?

My invisible hand <---- it saves me money AND makes me giggle

Look what my Invisible Hand – the super-handy, save-time-and-money-shopping-online Firefox add-on – showed me today!

I can get the award-winning, super-intelligent, gloriously curious, non-judgmental, extraordinary journalist, Louis Theroux, for only £8.97 or $13.77! And get it on!

Now, I would definitely go for that offer except that a) he probably doesn’t know about it b) he has a gal and two children and most importantly c) my best friend would be upset with me since she has a mega-crush on Louis (and Elvis Costello, who has a lovely new album out called Secret, Profane & Sugarcane).

Seduced by peachy breast feathers

I’m a ‘Fierce Invalid Home from Hot Climates‘. Coming back to Scotland after twenty years I’m experiencing various culture shocks, thrills and a weird sense of re-booting my system by coming home to a place I’ve only previously lived in as a child.

One fundamental and enduring thrill is appreciating British garden birds. Every day my world is better because of our darling garden birds. I love supplying nesting materials (wool) and boxes, feeding and watching our garden birds.

I have been diligent about daily feeding ‘our’ feathered flocks over the past 2 years. And we’re members of the RSPB which has wonderful magazines for children and grown-ups for a tiny family membership fee. (Join the RSPB now.)

Robins, wrens, blackbirds, crows, chaffinches, wood pigeons, song thrushes, blue tits, great tits, dinnocks, damn feral pigeons … once we even had a Greater Spotted Woodpecker.

It’s a delightful birding paradise in our back yard. I love all these beautiful birds. Yes, the robins are clever and come real close to me now which is heart-warming. And the great tits are precious and strikingly-marked. I’m naturally a very egalitarian person, not given to favoritism. Or so I thought until recently.

Oh foolish pride!

Several weeks ago my mouth hung open and I felt like calling some birding hotline at the stunning sight of a male bullfinch enjoying bird seeds and nuts from my home-made, and as such weirdly-designed, bird table. He had the most outrageously gorgeous rose pinky peachy breast feathers and stark black cap.

I felt so honored.

Honored?! Who knew I was so shallow? I am mortified to have been so easily seduced by bullfinches, both male and female, just because they look really pretty! I kind of like them better than the others, I watch for them especially each day – because they are so beautiful. Their beauty enriches my day. Argh. I hang my head in shame over such favoritism based on looks alone.

Do I do this with other things and just don’t know it? Am I so easily beguiled by prettiness? I think I will research bullfinches so that at least from here on in I can demonstrate some kind of knowledge rather than mumble about my little love birds’ fine feathers.

What birds do you have at your place? Have you noticed them? Do you watch them?

Why have men stopped making things?

Why do so many men these days, particularly young men, not make and build tangible things like their grandfathers did?

I’m stipulating men not because I’m a sexist flower but because unlike men, for whatever reasons, women have retained hobbies through recent decades (why is the idea of having “hobbies” so cringe-inducing?).

Women are knitting, sewing, scrapbooking, painting, quilting, decoupaging cross-stitching, doing leatherwork, making paper sculpture into the small hours all over the world. Sewing cafes are springing up like Sweat Shop in Paris.

What are men doing?

Not much it seems. On Etsy, a site where you can buy and sell handmade and vintage goods, the proportion of women versus men is outrageously, stupendously, shamefully unbalanced – 96% women, 4% men (according to a 2008 study) given that all humans benefit from creating something tangible in the world. Uh-huh, a website where you can sell anything you make with your own wee hands is predominately used by women!

Humans, c’mon, this is sad.

Making stuff is a creative process that is deeply meaningful and, I believe, fundamental to our sense of wellbeing. Being in the zone when creating with your hands. Feeling the sense of accomplishment, achievement and resolution at having manifested something new in the world, no matter how hideous or lame it may be, are crucial feelings.

Why have most men in developed countries turned their backs on whittling, turning driftwood into furniture, making clocks, weaving, building bookcases and treehouses and all the rest? Is it to do with technology and global business? Are men using their creation vibes to instead make intangibles like websites, companies, design?

I’ve worked with so many designers and art directors who are brilliantly creative in their jobs but who are easily crushed when their ideas or designs don’t fly for whatever reason.

Why? Because so much of their ego is tied-up in what they make at work since they don’t have an outlet for creativity at home. While they are well-paid to have the creativity sucked out of them at work, what does it do to their own creative spirit, the spirit that spends all its time locked up at work?

It’s even more disheartening when you consider how much women like men who’re ‘good with their hands’!

Lots of professional men I know refuse to fix or repair things saying, ‘why do it yourself when you can pay a man to do it for you?’. Well, there’s everything right about that. But that’s not what I’m talking about. (Even while it might make a guy feel great to fix something tangible like his grandpa would have done.)

What did you like doing when you were little? Do that again. Yes, I really am including Airfix kits. What did your dad, granddad, uncle or other man in your life show you how to make? Have a go now. Remember, reconnect, recreate.

An ex-boyfriend of mine, a supremely creative person who inexplicably has his own successful accountancy business, had to be coerced to walk into a model shop at age 40 to buy his heart’s desire, an Airfix airplane kit.

He was embarrassed. I mean WTF is going on with that? Why? I can’t see Tim Burton thinking twice about nipping into a model shop and spending days gluing bits of plastic together to create a replica if he fancied it.

I suspect the men who’ve made and created empires like Richard Branson and the Amazon dude also have hobbies that involve making other things manifest with their own hands. I am sure the physical manifestation of a toy airplane, a wooden birdhouse, a metal coat hook, lollipop stick cabin or whatever, actively helps men create business success.

Etsy dominated by women? Men without tools? Why? What is going on?

Men need hobbies. Someone start a movement.

POST SCRIPT: 16.04.20 I sent a Tweet out asking some lovely men whose opinions I value to comment on this post – Leo Babauta, Jonathan Mead,  Charlie Gilkey, Jonathan Fields, Tim Ferriss, Glen Allsopp, Chris Guillebeau, Alain de Botton. Imagine my utter delight that two of them noticed my request and responded below. Click ‘comments’ to see.